Oct 29 2012 4:30pm

How Do I Know You Love ME?: Reincarnated Loves in Paranormal Romance

Archangel’s Blade by Nalini SinghIn paranormal romances, plotlines can truly be anything the author can imagine, but there is one storyline that puts into question whether the hero truly loves the heroine: Unlike a contemporary romance, in a paranormal romance our hero can have a lifetime which spans centuries. So what if his greatest love is killed, and centuries later he finds her again, but this time her spirit is now in you?

Nalini Singh’s Guild Hunter series including a dark, dangerous and very broody vampire name Dmitri. Dmitri is over 1,000 years old and had lost his beloved wife centuries ago when he was still mortal. Dmitri’s contempt for mortal women has grown over the centuries while they fawn all over him and allow themselves to be used for food and sex. When he meets a Guild Hunter by the name of Honor, he feels her fear and loathing of him. While they hunt a vampire serial killer together, they learn to respect each other, and although feelings begin to bloom between them, we eventually learn that Honor is the reincarnated soul of his wife, Ingrede. We hear over and over again how Dmitri told his wife that he would love her until he turned to dust. Does this statement preclude Dmitri from ever having feelings for another woman? Although Archangel’s Blade starts out as a great story of two broken people finding a second chance, it gets twisted into a story of only one true love for each person until the end of time and the only way to ever have love again is by reincarnation. We are left wondering if the deep connection is between our hero and heroine—or the hero and that missing piece of his soul that is now residing in Honor. Then where does that leave Honor in this love triangle?

Night Embrace by Sherrilyn KenyonSherrilyn Kenyon has also used this story plot in Night Embrace when Talon, the Celtic Chieftan, lost his beloved wife, not to mention his own life, due to his cousin’s greed and betrayal. This series of events leads to his becoming a Dark-Hunter.

Now in present-day New Orleans, Talon is saved during the course of fighting soul-sucking daimons by a unique and free-spirited artist named Sunshine. Although she is not Talon’s usual type, he is inexplicably drawn to her. With the help of his spirit guide, Talon eventually realizes that Sunshine was his wife in a past life. Through dreams, Sunshine also comes to realize that her strong feelings for Talon might be partly based on their former relationship. Talon seems to have a harder time separating the woman she is now from the woman he used to love, and it takes him a great deal of the story to come to the conclusion that his feelings for Sunshine are as strong as his feelings for the woman who was his wife. Sunshine confronts Talon and questions whether he is confusing his feelings for his deceased wife with whatever he thinks he feels for Sunshine. Talon is eventually able to reassure Sunshine that he truly loves her.

A similar and slightly more complicated variation of this plot is used in the new Jacquelyn Frank series, The World of Nightwalkers. She introduces us to new Nightwalkers called Bodywalkers. They are spirits of ancient Egyptians whose mummified bodies tie them to the mortal world. The God Ra has barred them from heaven because of their greedy grasp for immortal life, and the only way they can return from limbo to the mortal world is to convince a strong individual who is near death to share their body with the soul of the Bodywalker.

In her first story Forbidden, Ram, better known as Ramses II, who now shares the body of his “original” Vincent, has gone to the small town of Saugerties, NY, where they have heard the tale of the miraculous survival of The Bridge Girl, and they believe that this Docia Waverly is now the original to their Queen, Hatshepsut. Upon meeting Docia, Ram starts feeling a strange connection to her, a connection which he has never felt before to his Queen. He tries to fight his feelings for her because indulging in those feeling would be a betrayal to his King. Ram states over and over again his confusion since he has never had those feelings for his Queen before. What Ram seems to be missing in his confusion, which seems quite reasonable to the reader, is the difference could simply be the woman, Docia, who is now sharing her body with the Queen. Maybe his new feelings are for her rather than the Queen. Maybe his original Vincent is the reason he is feeling a spark toward the Queen or even to Docia. When you essentially have four distinct individuals Blending together into two bodies, how do you really know who is in love with who?

Maybe you find the idea of being reincarnated so that two souls would always find each other again and again is the ultimate in romantic fantasy, but since no two people are ever exactly alike, it can make you wonder who it is that the hero or heroine actually loves. How can you know if you are the third wheel in your own HEA?


Lucy Dosch writes book reviews for her blog Her e-reader has turned her love of reading into an obsession. When she is not reading, she likes to spend time with her husband and two daughters.

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Lege Artis
1. LegeArtis
Great post, Lucy. It does open dillema: is it a new love or recycled feelings? I really loved Dimitri's and Honor's love story. I think I'll apply one of universal booklover answers: it depends on book or writing...
One of the great examples of this storyline is Richelle Mead's Georgina Kincaid series. Our heroine is succubus and her life span is one millennium long. In the end it turns out that all men for whom she ever had feelings in her loooong life is actually her one true love reincarnated in their bodies...
2. Clau
I liked Nalini Singh Archangel’s Blade, because I loved the story between Dmitri and Honor,and Dmitri finally having his wife again, and had never thought of it this way, I love romances about reincarnation. But the question you love me or her?, Is difficult to answer, the answer is probably her since that person would never have noticed you if you were not his former wife.
3. Chelle
Yep, Dimitri and Honor rock. In fact, I just finished a reread of their story last month.

But my all time fav is Kresley Cole's Dream of a Dark Warrior, where Declan always come back for yummy!?
Aly O'Hare
4. wingZER0angel
I usually don't like the reincarnation stories specifically for this reason. I never really liked Night Embrace as much as I felt others did, although I very much liked Archangel's Blade, I think that had to do more with the story though. It all comes down to that past vs. present issue. One thing that saves these stories is that the present heroine is usually different than the past love--stronger, braver, bolder, darker. And since similiar changes have usually happened in the hero over the millenia, he comes to appreciate and respect those personality changes, ultimately realizing that his two loves are different, yet the same, and he loves them both.
rachel sternberg
5. rae70
You put a new twist of meaning to the reincarnation storyline that I really didn't think about.. and now I am feeling bad for the the 3rd wheel or "host" shall we say..
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