Today we're joined by author Laura Lee Guhrke, whose When the Marquess Met His Match is all about matchmaking and the course of true love. While Laura's book is a historical romance, the tips her heroine learns in the course of her matchmaking apply to modern times as well. Thanks for being here, Laura!
In my latest historical romance, When the Marquess Met His Match, my heroine Belinda Featherstone is the Victorian equivalent of Match.com. Belinda’s specialty is the transatlantic marriage, setting up American heiresses in search of social acceptance with British peers in need of cash.
In Victorian times, true love wasn’t really the goal. Marriage was, and that made pairing up pretty easy. People had a huge social network of family and friends to present men and women with possible partners for life. Nowadays, however, things are a bit trickier. You see, we expect love, too.
Love is a tough thing to find. Going on dates, the tried-and-true method of our parents and grandparents, has become like ballroom dancing: it’s great, but no one knows how to do it anymore. And networking has become a superficial “friend each other on Facebook” kind of thing that doesn’t do much to match people up. Despite a plethora of dating sites and living in the information age, studies show that most people who find love still find it through family and mutual friends.
You would love to set up some of the singles you know. Do matchmakers like Belinda have any tips that could help you out? Why, yes, they do!
Top 10 Matchmaking Tips
1. Keep an open mind about the singles you know. Just because you didn’t click with that guy who works in your building, it doesn’t mean he wouldn’t be perfect for your friend, Susan.